On Earth Day today (April 22), we all need to take a pledge to contribute to saving our environment in one way or another. Recycling can be the first important step to get started to care for your environment and Mother Earth. I know most of you may already be doing that, and thus, you must pass on the knowledge to those who require such inspiration.
Moving further, I have an Eco-friendly suggestion for a particular group of individuals. Especially to ferocious readers and book lovers, I want to say that your first step can be to move from physical books to e books. While I understand your sentiments of loving the touch and smell of a new book, it is also critical to realize what you would be leaving for your children and grandchildren to enjoy!
Did you know that just 1 ton of non-recycled printing paper takes the lives of about 25 trees? You may now count and assess how you, as extensive readers, are contributing to environmental damage. I share your passion for book reading and must tell you that I moved to e books long back. For years, I have not bought any physical book. The ones I have are a few gifted by authors or those I rented from an e library. That leaves a lot of space inside my study, keeps my library organized on my phone/tab, and of course, saves trees from dying before time.🌲🌴🌿
I appeal to reading enthusiasts to think of it and try contributing positively to the mother that feeds them. Read green, recycle paper, and pass on your extra books to not-so-privileged individuals to read and gain knowledge from them. Protect Mother Earth in your own little or big ways, reader friends. Yes, you can do it too. Begin now, if you have not yet!
As promised in my previous post, you can gain some real quick tips to be creative right now. If you always thought it to be complex to arrive at new ideas, then it is going to be super-easy from now on. It is simply about training your mind. Check out some ways to think out of the box and make it a habit to be creative:
Be open-minded: The first thing you must do is to keep your mind open to thoughts, ideas, and experiences. Resisting new ideas will stop you from being creative. Thus, start by appreciating every change that happens around you. Then, train your mind to stay adaptive and learning-oriented. Learn from any and every concept, event, source, etc.
Gain domain knowledge: People who experiment with their skills and innovate have good knowledge in their domains. For instance, a musician can only create new tunes when he/she has the knowledge of creating music. Thus, start gaining more knowledge on your subject. Move to Internet and search for fresh information on any topic you find intriguing. You will be surprised at what all you learn. New learning will trigger creative thoughts.
Solve an old problem: If you were thinking about completing a task but were facing an obstacle to do so, then rethink. If you do not have enough information to solve it, search online. Keep exploring relevant information until you arrive at a minimum of one solution to that problem. A good start may give you other creative ideas to solve that problem.
Doodle it: Even if you have a weird thought in mind, try doodling it. You do not need to be a great artist to doodle your idea. Draw anything that comes to mind and you will automatically be inspired to make it better and come up with fresh ideas to mend your doodle. You may carry a sketchbook to doodle your sudden ideas anytime, anywhere.
Link up things: Select any two items in your home and think how you would link them up. For instance, the creator of roller skates might have thought of linking shoes and wheels. What is your idea of linking up things?
Explore a picture: Take any picture or painting to explore keenly. Write down all you notice about that picture. Adopt a fresh perspective to look at it every time and keep noting down your ideas. Whether you like or dislike something or want to change an element, keep a note. Take a break and review your notes later. You will find how creative you have been with your thoughts.
Be curious: To be creative, you have to be curious. Go to watch a play. Attend a concert. Visit an art gallery. If nothing is possible, explore creative videos on the Internet. Be curious about the art so you may know more about it and create some of your own.
Read a novel: If you have a good story book or novel, start reading it. You can also download e books. When you read a story, you will be curious to know about further happenings. Hundreds of new thoughts will come to your mind. Work on it if you get a wonderful idea.
Go for a walk: To stimulate your mind, it is also helpful to move physically. When you go for a walk around your block, you will meet different people and notice a lot of activities. Make a habit of observation and giving a thought to such activities. One thought will lead to another and many more.
Do things differently: Whether it is about cooking your meal with changed ingredients or taking a new route to office, you should make a change today. Experiment on doing things differently.
Creativity is only about making a change in the way you think. Initiate the training of your mind immediately!
April 21 marked the World Creativity and Innovation Day. For those who could not have imagined that such a day exists, a suggestion is to start being more creative and celebrate the occasion on a positive note. While you may have a truly creative soul like mine, there are many individuals who feel that creativity is a waste of time. Some even criticize those who are creative in nature. A few days back, I created the following for all critics of creativity –
However, I also realized that the actual problem of such individuals is that they cannot think out of the box and get creative ideas. It is obvious for them to become a critic then. This does not mean that they are incapable of generating fresh ideas, but simply that creativity requires a good amount of positive mental energy to come into existence and they may not want to invest that energy. On the other hand, it is important for every individual to know that progress is not made through repeated actions but through innovative ones. If you expect fresh results through the same action every time, then it just stays your expectation. Thus, be real and embrace creativity if you want to excel in any field.
Creativity is not confined to sketching or painting. It spreads to every domain you can imagine. While a shoemaker needs to be creative to design a new type of shoe per emerging customer demands, a social worker also needs to be creative to awaken and convince people about a genuine cause. Being innovative will not only help your mental energies to grow and be active, but it will also benefit your overall health, build positivism and confidence, empower you at personal and professional levels, and offer inner joy. You will work out fresh solutions to problems that remain unsolved through traditional methods or the lack of it.
Here is a great quote that explains the importance of
innovation and inspires you to be a creative person today and every day:
“Don’t be satisfied with stories, how things have gone with others. Unfold your own myth.” – Jalaluddin Rumi, The Essential Rumi
It is truly inspirational and motivational to listen to the way others have tackled issues and done something new in life. However, real inspiration and intrinsic motivation will only come from the achievements you make by being creative and carving your own path. Not everyone has the same journey of life. Take an oath to be creative each day and make your journey beautiful and inspirational for the world. Creativity is the best way to justify your existence and purpose in life.
(For those who want to gain some quick tips on being more creative, I have my next post coming in real quick. Keep a watch!)
Do you find it dreadful to face Monday when you have to finish off the weekend and get back to work? However, it is not the Monday that scares you, but it is your energy, attitude and mental setup for the Monday. Change it all and you will find that Mondays can be motivating too! Here is how to scare away your Monday blues in just 5 steps:
Adopt a positive attitude: Your attitude is the way you perceive something or some situation. If you feel negative about Monday, it may even spoil your entire work week. Thus, tell yourself that Mondays are beautiful and motivating. Set a positive attitude by thinking that the day will be successful for you and will bring cheer and energy.
Plan and organize your day: Planning is a critical part of every activity. Thus, it is important that you plan for each day at work. If you do not have a plan to complete certain tasks during a day within a given time, then it can be a mess when you receive sudden work demands. Use an organizer app, a calendar, or a To-Do list to plan your Monday. Do this on the weekend itself so you can check your schedule on Monday morning before setting it in your mind to implement it.
Keep your weekend relaxed: A tiring work week and then a tiring weekend can be hell when you begin a fresh week. It is essential to relax your mind and body on the weekend so you can be fit and energetic to start a new Monday. Whether you pursue a hobby on the weekend, listen to soothing music, meditate, groom yourself or cook a great meal for your family, every bit will help you to rejuvenate your mind and body.
Treat the root issues: Sometimes, you are scared of facing the Monday after a fun weekend, as you are scared of going to your workplace, meeting a bad colleague, doing a complex task or nodding to your boss’ commands. If you feel the problem is with your work, boss, environment or anything linked to your life, then make sure to treat that problem from the root. Else, every Monday will bring in the same ill-feeling for you. For instance, request for a vacation if you feel burnt out or ask your boss to give you a challenging responsibility if your work is monotonous.
Hug a Monday: When you are done with all the above steps, ensure to hug Mondays or every new day that comes to your life. Remember that not everyone in life witnesses a new day. Treat a day as a blessing, as it gives you ample opportunities to grow and develop, as well as learn from it. Smile more to release your happiness hormone.
Keep learning from the things that you find difficult, and keep celebrating things that you find joyful. It will ease off every situation and make you hug the Monday – Tuesday – Friday. Be positive, be happier.
Are you a little annoyed with what someone said to you? Are you very annoyed with something that happened to you? Whatever be the reason of your unhappiness, you can turn that frown to smile in a short time, provided ‘you’ are desirous of doing it. Every human being seeks happiness and joy. However, it is also important to accept hopelessness, annoyance, stress, mood disturbances, and everything that happens to snatch your happiness.
Remember that happiness can be enjoyed only after a phase of unhappiness is over. So, do not feel broken by the negatives, as the negatives make you appreciate the positives in your life. Let me offer slight help if you want to enter a happy mood right now. Read on to get some quick tips.
Get moving: Do not keep sitting in a dark corner. Move out. If you have been thinking for long about something, break that pattern and step out of your surroundings to a livelier world. The fresh air and some smiles around you will make you happy instantly.
Bask in the sunshine: If you are unhappy right in the morning, go and get some rays of Sun on your face. You will get vitamin D, a mood booster; and yes, even gloomy poets take inspiration from the Sun!
Interact, interact, communicate: It is not without a reason that God gave you a family, a set of friends, and some neighbors. Interact with them. If you are close to someone, try sharing with them what troubles you. Pouring your heart out to a trustworthy person is the best way to find instant relief. Get communicating! Do not take the entire burden of this world on your sole head.
Meditate: Sometimes, people are the root of your problem. If so, move inward rather than outward. Interacting with the same individuals who strain your mind can be too much to bear for long. Take a break and meditate in solitude. Your escape can give you solutions to problems and relief from negativity. It refreshes your mind and helps you find newer ways to tackle your issues.
Watch comedy: Watching a comedy show or movie is probably the best immediate solution to your stress issues and troubles. Laughter releases dopamine, the stress-buster chemical, in your brain. Play a comic video or show on the Internet or watch a fun movie on TV. However, do not keep waiting for happiness to walk up to you. Believe me that it is very stubborn, but vulnerable if you plan to catch it.
Play games: No, it is not about playing games with people! Play any nice game offline or online. Creative and mind-boosting games can be instant joy providers. Play it to believe it.
Be organized: Sometimes, workload or work complexity is the root of your frown. In such a case, uproot it through effective planning and task execution. Use an organizer app or To-Do list to create a priority list of the tasks you have to do. Start by completing some easy and short tasks if a complex task is giving you the ache. Taking slight burden off your head will offer intrinsic motivation to finish other tasks. Try on; it works!
Put the music on: Music is an impacting solution to unhappiness. Play vocal or instrumental of your choice. However, it is important to actually hear and feel it to enjoy. It acts like a medical drug to the disease called the negativity of mind.
Scroll through pictures: Something highly effective to treat your negative mood is a family album or some great pictures you have clicked. Refresh your memories by scrolling through those happy faces and positive emotions. If you cannot get hold of it right now, then simply search for the images of nature and places on a search engine. You will feel instant mood uplifting.
Eat clean and sweat it out: While eating healthy and nourishing food as a routine can keep your mood happy at all times, you can grab a good bite to boost yourself when you feel stressed out. But, no junk food please! Drink plenty of water and have protein and good carbs. You can have a bite of chocolate though! Make sure to work out for a while to feel refreshed. Good food and exercise will cleanse your system and mind. A clean mind will get some great thoughts that will solve some silly problems.
So, which technique is the best for now? Do share your feedback if you find it helpful. Live a happy, cheerful life until I see you back…
(For constant motivation and joy, pick up any of my books to read what fits your mood. I write only to spread positivity around. You may get the required details on my social media handles. Feel free to connect or message me if you’re facing any serious issues and need help/counseling. Your mind and body are precious. Treasure them and keep them away from negativity. Life is beautiful; live it well.)
So, it’s about a show that I just watched. They were showing how some evil-eyed people snatch away your happiness and control your mind. I do not fully comprehend how that works in their favor, but I always suggest my loved ones to keep their happy life, happy events and happy possessions concealed from as many eyes as possible.
However, not many individuals pay attention to the advice, especially in this century where there are many display counters on social media. From beautiful pictures and new cars to affectionate relationships, there is everything about them in open. There come the haters and evil forces! Well, not all the magic in this universe is good for all. Some is good for ‘haters only,’ and without going into the details, I’d proceed on the muse.
Happiness is similar to your hard-earned money that you keep in a safe or in a bank. Why do you do that? Obviously, you bank your money so it doesn’t remain in open for evil eyes, thieves or robbers to make it their own. It’s exactly the same when it comes to the protection of your happiness from thieves and robbers. You must be extremely lucky or living in the stone age if you do not believe that such thieves and robbers of happiness exist!
Hate is a very strong and one of the most prevalent emotions in human beings. Many people cannot even slightly overcome it, because they do not have what others do. It may be about love, finances or gorgeous possessions. Basically, instead of working positively to get what they are destined to get, such individuals involve in negative emotions like hate and jealously. Wise men have rightly said that people hate all that’s beautiful. However, I feel that it’s not true for all. Many people are contended with what they have.
Still, those who do not have contentment and inner happiness evil-eye what contended and happy people have. Recently, one of my friends bought an expensive red car that he flaunted on social media every other day, while he drove it to a beautiful location or made it his home. He soon started treating it like his girl, whom he soon lost to such a serious accident that left him just surviving! It pains my heart to share such incidents but to shed some light on my point.
Similar to this, another of my friends went crazy on social media whenever he fell in love. Understanding his positive commitment intentions, I still cannot figure out why he remained single. Now, this man got a new girlfriend about which I came to know post his marriage. Later, I also came to know that his two previous female friends on social media were having a cat-fight behind his back, in literal terms. Interestingly, one of them was doing a spell so he remains under her control and does not hang around with his actual girlfriend at that time. Well…two-minute silence for the evil!
Going back to the point, unveiling everything you possess may not be a wise idea if you want to live a joyful life. Negative energies keep playing around, and you never know when it plays the role of a friend or acquaintance! Keep the ‘good’ happening in your life to you and your family. When it matures/ages, feel happy in displaying your possession. Amusingly, even a beggar won’t want what’s worn-out.
(While it’s based on personal experiences, you may share your own experiences and opinions with me. Until then and beyond, stay happy…!)
If you always thought that poetry is just a way of the poet to self-express, then think again. You may still be at a nascent stage and far from self-actualization. However, you are not alone in thinking that. Many individuals believe that a poet pens down his/her personal thoughts, feelings, and past or present life in his/her poem. They don’t see any way it could be useful or helpful to them.
However, you can grow and develop yourself if you open your mind to understanding what poetry can do to you. Read on to find out.
Know yourself: Poetry can appear to be sad or happy, dark or positive, and hopeless or hopeful. Sometimes, you may find a poem as the description of an event in the poet’s life, which may actually not be the case. At another time, you may find the same poem as the description of an event in your own life. Similarly, you may find the poet’s perspective very different from your perspective on the poem’s subject. All this happens because you and your environment are unique, yet you share similar emotions, feelings, experiences and more with other humans. Poetry helps you know your real personality by the way you react to the words of someone else.
Explore your inner self: It is not only about your overt personality but you may also explore your core through poetry. I have seen readers who start interpreting a poet’s thoughts and life as soon as they read their poetry. However, a poet may pen down a poem for any purpose, to explain any concept/thought, to express their experience in any manner, and to tell their own or someone else’s story in any context. It is very complex to arrive at an exact understanding of a poet through his/her poem. Moreover, how does that knowledge add to a reader’s own growth and development? A better use of poetry is for exploring your own inner self.
Stir your core: Reading poetry is highly enriching. There are several things that may be taboo in your family, society, community, etc. Poetry is so versatile that it can break all such taboos and bring to your mind’s surface all the emotions, feelings or perspectives that you’d never share in your real life, with people around you. This is because you may not want to create a negative or rebellious image of yours. With poetry, you can actually stir that suppressed subconscious and unconscious that you’ve been carrying in your head. It gives a release/clearance to your true emotions and any negativity. When you get rid of that, you turn to be more positive, humble, compassionate, understanding of others, and energized. You start moving beyond what was blocking your growth and development as a human. You become more open and accepting of your and others’ thoughts and feelings, because you become aware of a world that’s similar to who you are.
Grow and develop your soul: When you read a variety of poetry, you explore a variety of experiences, stories, and people! Sitting on your couch, you gain the deepest understanding of the universe and the souls inhabiting it. You learn about cultures, rituals, boundaries, actions, nature, heart and soul, and what not! It may or may not resonate with you all the time, but it gives you an understanding of psychology. It’s like looking at an abstract painting and deriving your own meaningful picture from it. The purpose is not to understand an artist’s life and mind but your own! Release your emotions and leave negative traits in a painting, a poem. Believe me; you won’t get empty inside. You will glow with an inner light to take you on a path of growth so you may reach the next destination of your soul.
Go on…success is waiting for your self-actualization. Break your boundaries, know your soul, enrich your self, and light up your life with joy. (Poetry = Joy)
I’m starting by suggesting aspiring writers to not be lethargic (both in their thoughts and actions), and then, by quoting one of my social media posts here (from March end, 2018). I’m quoting it, because that’s usually similar to the first question any aspiring writer would ask me…about making money from occasional writing! So, this quote answers that.
“…Well, this is from yesterday. A reader, who has gone through two of my books and now wants to buy Seasonal Spices, asks me, ‘Where do you get so much of motivation from and how could you release 3 books within 3 months? I also want to earn from writing, as I know I can write well. Then, I’d get rid of my grilling job.’
To him and everyone with that question, I want to tell this, ‘I’m no magician! Writing books is my way to spread happiness among readers, just like writing blogs, making music or any other hobby work is. I have a more grilling, 12-hour editing and content consulting job to do; since I have a job, I can afford to write books that might not earn a penny for me and I can afford to offer them for free at times; and since writing-editing are my PASSION and part of my profession for the last 15 years, I don’t know what motivation do I have or need. I’m simply created to fulfill this objective. Becoming Agatha Christie or gaining recognition for my books is not at all my dream, because I have already fulfilled all my dreams in the jobs I’ve done excellently. My first book was written last year, second over the past few months, and third over the past six years! All of these and others under creation have not only taken my time (that I could have used to earn more from my job), but also my ‘soul’…and something beyond that too! If earning from writing (that you do well) is your goal, I want you to be happy in your grilling job.’…”
Well, the questioner might have gone crazy to know that my fourth book is now in stores! Now, as these and other questions have been coming up repeatedly from aspiring writers, I’m leaving a few pointers here so they may know how to proceed with the questions in their minds.
If you also have such questions, here’s what you may like to do (step-wise):
It’s always better to depend on your learning than anything else. Conduct research, as Google is free, and there are unlimited resources to guide you.
If you don’t find an answer, post your question on my Goodreads author page or another social media page. Locating it is easy if you’ve the same zeal as that for becoming a published writer. No dreams can be realized without action. Since you’re reading my blog, it’s a suggestion. Else, you may ask these questions on any specific author’s social media page, provided they’d like to answer.
Read, read, and read more. Please don’t tell me that you have never read anything but wish to write! Writers are readers first. They need to know how other authors in their genre are proceeding and presenting their work. More than that, they need to know the pulse of the readers.
Make efforts and join reader/writer groups present on every social media platform. Discussions held there can teach you a lot about the reading and writing arenas. Learn the intricacies of the publishing and marketing worlds before bringing your first book into the market. Remember, if it fails at any step – writing and generating quality content / editing / formatting / design / publishing / marketing and distribution, and others – it may only demotivate you when you don’t receive the expected response from readers. Even if you go through the traditional publishing route, you must know about these aspects to avoid being ripped off.
Most importantly, your work must be soulful and not mechanically created. Don’t start on a project if it doesn’t touch your heart. Again, the book may not earn for you, but it will definitely require a monetary input. So, be ready to invest in what you actually want to create, and not just for the sake of writing and dumping on the sales racks. If you’re lucky, you’ll break-even and get more from a quality work.
If you’ve a vision, go with a knowledge-backed plan. Don’t lose hope, as many present-day good authors have spent some good years of their lives, learning without lethargy. Follow them, read them, and gain from their experiences to make your journey smoother. It takes a lot to be a successful author than sitting on a couch and throwing a question to a published author. Act now…good luck!
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